When was the last time you looked up from your phone in a coffee shop to notice anyone cute? Modern technology has built auditory, visual, and societal barriers to fun and adventurous dating.

I didn’t understand the difference between sexual desire and the desire to have sex. I lumped them together, considered them shameful, and threw them back at God, wanting to get rid of them.

Understanding communication differences offers the opportunity to recognize what feels uncomfortable and hopefully can provide an “ah ha!” reaction when one feels unheard or ignored.